HOW TO FLIRT

How to flirt and why is it so hard?

I seriously don't understand why flirting is so hard for us, men. This thing is already hard-wired in our brains, but why is it we look like fools when we are doing it? Guys, I think the answer is simple, we seriously are intimidated by the opposite sex and the main culprit is... romantic movies. Romance movies set standards of how a girl should be approached by a man. Although this may sound like a blessing that you can easily copy what the leading man is doing, this actually portrays each "Romeo" of a girl to be very attractive. How many times have you seen an ugly leading man?

However, bless thy manliness inside of us for this is the only thing that can set us free. I am basically assuming that all of you are insecure so here's what we do.You should first hell'a love yourself. You're born like that. God made you like that. You, yourself, has no right to call yourself ugly. The problem now is, if all are not ugly then how would girls choose? That may sound demeaning or shallow to women, and it is but I hope you get my point.

Now, I'm going to give you a few tips on how to flirt:

1. EYE CONTACT

You might already know about this but eye contact is really a great way to start a chemistry between you and the girl you like. Even if there is no physical contact, we usually find ourselves somewhat uncomfortable when someone is looking directly at us. This may be because it takes a lot of confidence to look someone right in the eye giving the thought to someone that you see yourself proud and dominant, and what more feeling can a girl be tempted than a feeling of submission.

2. SMILE

Not just any smile, a genuine one. According to studies, people trust more on those who are smiling than those having a poker face. But, how do you do a genuine smile? A genuine smile is a natural smile but with wrinkles around your eyes. Smiling can make someone comfortable since you are giving a vibe that you are trusted.

3. COMPLIMENT

During one lecture in my psychology class, yes I listen once in a while, a person usually wants to be with someone who makes them feel good. When making someone feel good, they must also feel the sincerity of your words. A simple "I like what you did with your hair" and "You have a beautiful smile" is a great start. However, you should never use generic or cliche compliments. This will only look bad and she may think of you having a interior motive.

4. YOUR STRENGTHS

Your strengths, abilities, skills, talents, tell her every good side of you. Of course you can't go saying "Hey, I'm the best basketball player. I beat all of those punks...." that will only make you a boastful brat. The best time to say these is in the middle of your fun stories like "Yesterday, I was with my dog on the stage after winning a tournament in basketball when the man giving the trophy farts in front of him. You should've seen my dog's face. It was like he was ready to puke but at the same time, pooping." Funny, right? No? You, guys, should see my dog.

Early stages of conquests should always have these four guns in your arsenal. These will spice things quickly and it will almost work on any woman. Remember, guys, the main problem is not your face and will never but it is how comfortable you are wearing it. True story. Ciao.