NIGHTMARE OF SERIOUS GUYS (dating)

If you're reading this, I assume you have been heart broken at least once in your lives. We have all felt the feeling of being down, especially when it comes to rejection. According to science, when you feel rejected (i.e. romantic rejection), you feel hurt like that of physical pain. In some cases, the ultimate fear of serious men pursuing a woman is the fear of rejection.

I cannot blame you if you just gave up on a lady you were really in love with, in fact, I, personally have been rejected quite so many times. Sometimes we think maybe it is because of the way we look, the way we talk, the way we stand, and all kinds of insecurities in our lives. However, thinking like this is like underrating the standards of the women we were pursuing. Women with high standards do not have shallow and unreasonable explanations for the action they have done. High-class women may have reasons like these:

1. SHE MIGHT ALREADY HAS SOMEONE ELSE IN HER HEART

Let's face it, we cannot control the feelings of others, except if you are a psychopath trying to manipulate every situations to get her. Loving someone who loves someone else is one of the most brutal pain one can experience. In my experience, the pain was so devastating that it weakens my immune system and gave me fever the night I heard the news. Well, I cannot blame her, it is her heart after all. 

2. SHE MIGHT BE AFRAID TO TRUST YOU

In any cases, she has reasons to do so. Maybe your record of dates are just like a child eating ice cream, if he does not like the flavor even though he already bought it, he will more likely to throw it and buy a new one. To be simple, she is not trusting you because she does not want to be your next victim even if you never did anything in the past intentionally. Another is you have not done anything to prove your well being and just trying to keeping it "cool" which is the total opposite of what she wants. What she really wants is effort. Effort from you in loving her. However, there are just some women who never saw the effort and made you think that you looked stupid for ever doing something genuine for her. True story.

3. SHE MIGHT BE NOT GOOD AT THAT RELATIONSHIP

Some of you might think that this is bullsh*t but there really are girls like this. She is basically saying you and her will never work. You might ask "Why?". It maybe because of the obvious difference in both of you and the obvious standards she is asking. Well the sad thing is, all of us humans have a checklist on everything, take for instance dating someone. If that someone does not made it to the list, then, even if it is unfair, the person's name is crushed out. That is the reality and one must understand you have it also.

The reasons are quite common but that is just how life works. You inevitably have someone incompatible with you and someone who is the reason why you are still trying despite all the rejections. If you're still reading this, you might look back at your memories or giving a pity to the author but the truth is non of these things matter. What matter is, you keep trying to find somebody who you want to be with and also, wants to spend her life with you.