ALPHA MALE BODY LANGUAGE

Throughout my life, I have seen a lot of Alpha Males walking in front of me, but what exactly is an Alpha Male. The term "Alpha Male" is literally the dominant male in a group. This male is an imposing leader of the group, he who calls anything that he thinks is good for his followers. He can also be trusted when it comes to survival and that's what everyone wants.

Now, in the modern human world, the alpha male is the one who has the leadership skills and unyielding confidence in himself. Though this is the modern time, the hard wires in our brains, especially in women, are still connected to the primitive and natural ways. That's why, women are very much attracted to men that display themselves as the highest ranked male in every meetings because they will never worry about getting harmed.

 Unfortunately, some of us can't quite display the features that alpha males radiate. However, that doesn't mean it can't be trained. Here are the practicable body languages you can master:

1. OPEN-TO-ALL SITTING POSITION
Yes, even the way you sit tells a lot of stories about you just by looking. The next time you sit while listening to someone, try laying your back in a comfortable way against the couch and resting your one arm on top of it. You should look like a man putting his arm over a woman's shoulder, cuddling, except there's no woman, even in you life.... To add to this position, try resting one of your leg (opposite side of the rested arm) on top of the other leg. Now, just listen to whoever is talking, alpha male way.

2. CONFIDENT POSTURE
While standing, simply keep your posture straight and look someone in the eye while talking and/or listening. Not only you'll look confident that they are now nervous talking to you, you also feel confident because of the posture.

3. HALF-COMMITTED SMILES
We should admit that sometimes we find ourselves just keeping on smiling, mostly due to anxiety, to not give a bad impression to whom we're talking to. I advise you to stop doing that. It creates an awkward environment for both of you and before you know it, you're just another guy she crossed out. Now here's what you should do: instead of smiling and/or laughing to her jokes all the time, try smiling just a little bit for a little amount of time and not looking to her eyes. She'll feel sort of embarrassed for not making you laugh and subconsciously will try a more desperate approach. In other words, you got her on your hook!

4. TALK LIKE A BIG MAN
When in group of males, try talking like you're a big man. When I say "big man", literally, I mean physical. Talk like someone who can defend himself in every physical situation and threats. Talking like this can imitate an aura of an alpha male but if you know you're going to have a physical fight with somebody, try talking it out first. NEVER degrade someone while practicing this. That's being a douche, not a characteristic of what we want to become.

5. THE MAN WHO CAN GET EVERYTHING
When you don't know what to do in a situation, while training yourself to be an alpha male, try thinking you're the man who can get everything in the world. This can improve confidence and will ultimately forbid you to rush things since you can get everything.

It's true that we can't all be Alpha Males but we can be at least close to being one. We just need to find what we really want with ourselves and soon everything we wanted will come. Trust yourself and you'll find everyone trusting you too, soon. True story.

Check out my previous post on "The things you do wrong when meeting a new girl" or if you want to know a little about me, check out my post about "Investigatory Best Friends".